A while ago my girlfriend and I decided to move in together, and after a few conversations, she and her sister will be moving into my 2 bedroom apartment in four weeks.
I love the idea and I am looking forward to it.
But like anything important in life, at moments there will be a struggle. My first major moment of struggle came today.
We have both been in our places for many years and one accumulates tons of STUFF when one lives in a place for a long time. Fitting everything in the apartment would be impossible of course, so we need to give up some of it. In my case more than half of my stuff will probably be gone.
Honestly, I am more than happy to get rid of most of my stuff. But today I had a moment of anxiety when I felt that everything was gonna be gone.
Every important decision in life requires changes and sacrifices. If it doesn’t feel that way what You are doing is not important enough.